Should we put a ban on asian americans from going to their native country to get married ?
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I’ve seen a lot of asians especially vietnamese guys go to vietnam to marry some random chick they don’t even know and call her their wife and bring her over here. I’m getting sick and tired of it. All of them think that they are better because they have arranged marriages so they won’t end up single old like the rest of us americans.
No there should NOT be a ban on Asian Americans from going to their native country & getting married. It shouldn’t matter to you if someone has an arranged marriage or not. It isn’t hurting you. Why not just leave them alone, they do no harm to anyone. Just cuz arranged marriages are not the norm here don’t mean that others don’t have the right to practice it. It gives them someone to be with, share their life with. You shouldn’t be against people just because of their beliefs or way of life when they don’t hurt others. It isn’t up to you or others who someone gets married to. You have no control over someone’s life just cuz you don’t like part of their culture.
if that’s their culture than no. i find it degrading toward women, but they practice arranged marriages, so why keep them from that?
Why are you worried about them? It’s their life not yours.
Is there a legit reason you think so?
other than you are sick of it…
someones jealous
I agree; yesterday, there was a Vietnamese kid on Y!A answers asking us what we thought of his arranged marriage. He says that it’s good because he will be guaranteed a wife, and will not be lonely. But the kid was only 19! Why would he need to worry about this kind of stuff? Arranged marriage sounds like a real downer, as if you’re settling for a lesser life so that you won’t get hurt.
http://ca.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AigFFjoFFfKA1QC.x3WSC_3pFQx.;_ylv=3?qid=20100713235804AArvh0c
Well it pretty much annoys me too. It seems a bit belittleing for the women. But I guess it’s an advantage for them; they get to upgrade and come live in America, right? So I guess if each is okay with it, I don’t think we’d be able to ban it. My ex-boyfriend is Vietnamese and he had a girl in Vietnam waiting to marry him. She’d send him cheesy little pictures of herself. lol. it was pathetic. But hey, at least he has a back up plan if he can never get a girl again.
But I don’t know about that last statement. Many Caucasian men at my moms job pick up wives from Asian countries, bring them here, the wife divorces them and they get money and American rights. So, maybe they will end up single and old. It’s all a game for some.
I think is a very good idea
I support your proposal. In my opinion East Asian men, especially Vietnamese men should be banned from dating or marrying East Asian females. They should only be allowed to date and marry White females or Hispanic females.
Does anybody have the right to ban that practice? That’s their choice.
Lol, white losers go to Asia and bring back mail-order brides too.